Welcome To Butterfly Pathways At
Soaring Success, LLC
OUR MISSION STATEMENT - Even though we all TRY to make life perfect, sometimes life throws huge obstacles at our feet. At first, we usually want to crawl into our cocoon. But then - we have a CHOICE - to ACT or NOT TO ACT. Once we choose ACTION, then it's time for us to CREATE PATHWAYS to Overcome Those Obstacles and Transition into the Phenomenal, Courageous BUTTERFLY that SOARS TO SUCCESS - Brilliantly, Logically, and Effectively. With the background of all of my experiences and Acquired, Proven, Powerful PATHWAYS - I'm here to coach you to Joy and Fulfillment. Let me guide your way!
Online
Certified Life Coach
Certified Holistic Cancer Coaching
Caregiver Life Coaching
Relationship Coaching
Spiritual Coaching
LIFE COACHING? WHY DO I NEED IT?
BUTTERFLY PATHWAYS??? WHY A BUTTERFLY? "SOARING SUCCESS" WHAT'S THAT MEAN? WHAT'S THIS ALL ABOUT??
Some times, the most important things in life come with no guidelines, no
"How To" booklets. And yet, managing those things successfully is more vital than handling any other part of our lives. That's where life coaching comes in.
I, as your Certified Life Coach and Certified Holistic Cancer Coach - will guide you through YOUR decision-making process - so you can feel successful and fulfilled, and healthier than ever - both physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
PRESENTING SOME SPECIFICS OF LIFE COACHING
Holistic Cancer Coaching - Through BeatCancer.org, I've become certified as a Holistic Cancer Coach. If you - or your loved one - are diagnosed with cancer, there are so many choices that you need to be aware of. Holistic Cancer Coaching takes in the full person, with amazing tools in going forward with HOPE, with or without today's regimen of chemo, radiation, and surgery - and in conjunction with your personal physicians. What kind of "Power Wheel" is available to you to heal your body from within? How can you learn to be your own advocate and be an integral part of the health care system? How can you access all the incredible tools provided within www.BeatCancer.org - an organization helping thousands of people since the 1970's? How can you prevent cancer for you and your family? I am here to guide you every step of the way - with personal experience from two husbands who died of leukemia. I am here to empower you and guide you. Start now, by visiting the BeatCancer web site,
https://beatcancer.org/about/ -and let me guide you through personal sessions.
Caregiver Coaching: If you're faced with caring for a loved one, how do you go about it? What skills do you need to learn? How do you learn to advocate and become a team member with all the other health care providers and facilities?
How do give yourself "The Right" to be free to love yourself - to create "Balance?"
Relationship Coaching: Are you on the fence - about jumping into a committed relationship but you're not sure? If your relationship is not working out - how do you decide to end it or to continue struggling - but with better tools? If a relationship ends, how do you handle the grief and prepare to "move on?"
Spiritual Coaching: Is spirituality a part of who you are? Are you missing the connection with a Higher Power? Have you been hurt or "Turned Off" by practices of your childhood, and you just don't know where to re-start your own spiritual path? Are you aware of the many choices you have to connect spiritually in a more Joyful Way than ever before?
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The Name BUTTERFLY PATHWAYS - What's That All About?
A butterfly is beautiful and free, brilliantly traveling from place to place, shining with confidence. However, butterflies don't start out in that state. Butterflies are the end product of being in the "cocoon" stage. When we're stuck in life, it's like being in a cocoon. Many times, we get frozen - unable to move to where we need to go - without even an idea of how to get there - like being in a cocoon. We need to travel through that stage and come out the Beautiful Butterfly. How do we do that? Each person is different. Each situation is different, but all of us need logical, definitive steps to go through that process. We call those steps "PATHWAYS." Why do we want those Pathways? For people who are strong, driven, committed to excellence - we all need some help. I am here for you - to become YOUR Life Coach - to Guide YOU, to help YOU decide which Pathways are best for you. SOARING SUCCESS is the goal - through lots of work and many steps - that will lead you to the end result of Joy, Empowerment, and Fulfillment.
Even though I am here for you and ready to become YOUR Life Coach - to help you through all the processes that you need. The first step, however, is for YOU to decide if you really want to analyze the present, make changes, learn new techniques - so YOU can look at yourself in the mirror and say, "I'm sure now. I know want to do, and I'm excited to create and walk within my successful path."
If you're ready, I look forward to becoming your Life Coach. To help you make that decision, I've created background and present information of who I am and what I have to offer. My sessions are 50 minutes-1 hour long - with an agreed upon series of sessions. It's impossible to provide you with these techniques in one session, so we both need to commit to a decided upon group of sessions - that number of sessions to be decided upon between conversations with the both of us.
Thank you for listening and for your interest in my company and my goals to provide YOU with all the skills that I have learned along the way. In MY life, I went through many cocoon stages, worked diligently "Non-Stop" to create
MY Pathways, and - today -
MY Success is in being ready and prepared to share my expertise with you.
Hi! I'm Jayne Donato Dempsey
My life has been a roller coaster of events that gives me all the experiences to help you today.
To be more accurate, my own life has been a growing process from Cocoon to Butterfly - and now I want to help you to do the same, through a series of coaching sessions, so that you can create your own "Butterfly Pathways" - to attain the heights of YOUR OWN "Soaring Success."
On June 24, 2024, my husband, Michael, died from complications around Chronic Myelogenous Leukemia. My previous husband, Stephen, died in 1982, from the same rare form of leukemia. From 1980 until now, I've been phenomenally guided and educated through an organization called the
Center for the Advancement of Cancer Education, (CACE), with the web site
https://beatcancer.org/about/. Michael's death has been devastating, giving me only two choices in life - to mentally die with Michael - or to move on to create a new life. I've made the conscious decision to go forward, using all of my experiences in life to help other people, including YOU, with holistic cancer coaching, caregiver coaching, relationship coaching, and spiritual coaching.
"Why so many kinds of coaching?" you might ask. The answer is because they all go together. Before meeting Stephen, in 1978, I was divorced and went through the ups and downs of that significant life change - and the challenge of raising two children on my own. After Stephen died, I then raised three children on my own - and went through 15 years of the wonderful "dating game," and actually came up with a formula for successful relationships. My children - Louis, Veronica, and Nicholas - are my Total Joy, and I thank God that each of them was born to me and now - I thoroughly adore and thank God for my grandchildren. When I married Michael, I accepted his children as my own, Mike and Molly, and embraced their children as my grandchildren - and thank God for them as well. Through it all, I experienced how to put a blended family into ONE family. In between both marriages, my father died. Right before he did, he cried to me - one of only three times I ever saw him cry. "What's going to happen to your mother? She doesn't drive. She coughs at night. She's totally dependent on me. What will happen when I'm gone?" For me, there was only one decision, "I got this Dad. I'll take care of Mama for the rest of her life," and I did. Hence, I also have the experience of what we now call "the sandwich generation," caring for a parent, while also taking care of our children. Mine was even trickier, because it started when I was still a widow. As with my other choices, I can now look back and cherish every minute - every memory - of my loved ones that I said, "Yes" to the directive of God - asking me to take care of them. That's the feeling I want to help you to have. At the end of the day - at the moment of death - there's no time to make decisions of IF we can help - or not. Death teaches us that those decisions must be made long before - knowing that death may come at any time. If we choose to let it, death gives us that wisdom.
Throughout everything, the foundation of my being is and has been.... deeply spiritual - not religious, spiritual. Going through life together with the Divine is a poweful and - as I believe - a necessary part of life - not rules and regulations, but through walking with the power of the Divine, or Higher Power, or Englightened Path - every minute of ever day. I wanted to learn about all spiritual paths and to attain the credentials to help people find their own way towards the path to their Divine, or Higher Power. I believe that all belief systems are to be respected. Consequently, I went to The New Seminary in New York City, to become an Ordianed Inter-Faith Minister, where I minister to people "where they are," rather than conforming to any particular belief system. Therefore, I can offer to help you in your spiritual journey, so that you can find what's right and good for you.
I add those credentials to my education as a graduate of Holy Family University and continuing education through Rowan University. My professional career has been in teaching, private industry, and various government positions. In addition, I created a brained based, enhanced social emotional learning environment within a peaceful program called The Peace Zone and have been The CEO of Peace Zone Enterprises - to add the ability of creating a healthy school and home environment from early childhood on. This gives me the opportunity to create a better tomorrow for children and adults.
AND NOW - MY CONCLUSION IS THAT ALL OF THESE EXPERIENCES HAD A PURPOSE - TO BRING ALL THAT I HAVE LEARNED -TO YOU-TO COACH YOU IN YOUR JOURNEY. IT IS MY JOY TO DO SO!!
Throgh a series of coaching sessions,I Will Show YOU How to Create
YOUR "BUTTERFLY PATHWAYS" - so that YOU can attain YOUR "SOARING SUCCESS!!!
Here's An Idea of My Formal Education and Background Career Information
It's always been my joy to help others and to choose Career Choices to Fulfill that Passion. At the same time, one of my talents is to look at a situation, analyze all the various aspects of it - and come up with a win-win solution. People have nicknamed me "A Mover and a Shaker." It's what I bring to you as your life coach.
I started out in real estate and property management, but then went on to working in government agencies. My most memorable was the Camden County Health & Human Services - as an Assistant Director to the Office of Intergroup Relations. Our job then was to mediate any bias activity within any town in Camden County, NJ. One of those events included responding to an attempt by the Neo Nazis coming to march in Cherry Hill - a predominantly Jewish Community. I worked within peace organizations, county and state organizations, and all of the Superintendents of Public and Private Schools. This had to be handled peacefully and productively - with an eye on proactive systems to quickly handle future situations. Consequently, I organized a 1,000 person Unity Event involving every Inter-Faith Community and established an Anti-Hate program within all public and private schools in Camden County. In addition - within this position - I was part of a
ten-person team to create the Camden County Human Relations Commission and The Camden County Inter-Faith Organization. From there, I moved onto becoming the Public Information Officer of the Camden County Prosecutor's Office. That position involved me inter-facing with all radio and TV media organizations - disseminating information accurately and responsively.
Not feeling totally fulfilled, I joined the private sector as an Admissions & Marketing Director for Assisted Living Facilities. Still - not the right industry for me, I searched for the "right fit." To create more tools for myself and for helping other people, I enrolled in getting certifications in Reiki and Integrated Energy Therapy (IET). IET fit me the most, so I became a Master Instructor - which gave me the ability to teach the IET system to others and also to become an energy practitioner - and also to rise to a Higher Consciousness Level myself.
I feel that IET led me towards teaching. I began the process getting all my certifications and becoming a teacher for Pleasantville School District, NJ, teaching Middle School English and Social Studies - grades 5 through 8th - and then finishing my career as a Grade School teacher, teaching 3rd and 4th grade. Again, I looked at the educational system - with its strengths and its flaws and determined "something's missing," and started applying my "problem solving." techniques. Combining what I had learned creating peace programs with my knowledge of utilizing positive energy, I created "The Peace Zone" - a brain-based, positive energy, entirely pro-active anti-bullying program that creates an optimal learning environment with the highest levels of positive
socio-emotional practices that provide an atmosphere that is safe, happy, and secure. I established a company called "Peace Zone Enterprises," wrote the books for early grades, middle grades, and home - and had them translated into Spanish as well.
While teaching, I enrolled in The New Seminary in New York, which catered to working individuals - and eventually was ordained an Inter-Faith Minister. As an Inter-Faith Minister from The New Seminary, I learned to minister to people "Where they are" in their spirituality. Continuing today, I coach people within whatever system works for them - or to find their right "spot" in spirituality. Sometimes this also involves life ceremonies, such as Baptisms or Baby Namings, Weddings, Funerals - and they are all individually created to reflect that person's belief system. Everyone's individual spirituality is accepted, and their individual belief systems are respectfully upheld.
I retired from a teacher in 2018, continuing my work as an Inter-Faith Minister, still promoting Peace Zone Enterprises, and now creating my new company of Butterfly Pathways To Soaring Success - using all of my life and career previous experiences - for Life Coaching, The Peace Zone and my work as an Inter-Faith Minister as well.
My Formal Education;
Accomplishments;
Current Positions
Education
BA - Holy Family University
Life Coach Certification IAPCC
Holistic Cancer Coach from BeatCancer.org
Psychology Graduate Courses - Rowan University
Education Certifications: Language Arts, Social Studies, Elementary Education
Inter-Faith Minister Ordination from The New Seminary, NY
Master Instructor - Integrated Energy Therapy
Reiki Level 1 and 2
Accomplishments
Camden County Woman of the Year
Dedication Award - Office of Inter-Group Relations
Desert Storm Helpline for Voorhees Township
10-Person Committee Member - Formulation of Camden County (CC) Human Relations Commission and CC Inter-Faith Commission
Event Planner for One Thousand Person CC Unity Day EventT
NJEA TV Production of The Peace Zone at Pleasantville (N Main)
Formulation of Gibbsboro Human Relations Commission
Creation of "The Peace Zone" Program for All Schools and Home
Creation of Peace Zone Enterprises
Author of "Welcome To The Peace Zone" Series Including "For Early Learners," "Home," "Student Edition and Teacher Edition" in English and in Spanish
Author of "Who is Jesus?" - a Reflective - Non-Denominational - - Factual and Historical Depiction of Jesus - His Cultural Character Traits, and how Various World Religions Refer to Him
All Books are available at www.lulu.com
Creation of "Butterfly Pathways To Soaring Success"
Inter-Faith Minister for 12 different Weddings, Baby Namings, Weddings, Individually Created According to Person's Belief System
Current Positions
Mother to My Children and Grandmother to My Grandchildren
CEO of Butterfly Pathways To Soaring Succes
Holistic Cancer Coach
Caregiver Life Coach
Relationship Life Coach
Spiritual Life Coach
Inter-Faith Minister for Various Life Ceremonies
Holy Family University Inter-Faith Committee Member
CEO of Peace Zone Enterprises
Marketing, Implementation, and Professional Development For
"The Peace Zone" In Schools and Home, and The Community
Liaison for Gibbsboro Township Human Relations Commission
WELCOME TO
CERTIFIED
HOLISTIC CANCER COACHING
Through BeatCancer.org
Whether you are trying to prevent cancer, recovering from Cancer, are a Caregiver of someone who you're caring for - or have cancer right now yourself, there are many, many things that you can do, and I can coach you. It's a process and I'll guide you every step of the way.
WHAT YOU CAN LEARN
FROM YOUR
CERTIFIED LIFE COACH
Are you a Caregiver For A Loved Oner?
Is Caregiver Your Career and Your Passion?
Have You Fully Embraced That Title?
Do you WANT to embrace that title -
and still have a full life for yourself?
Professionally or Personally,
What Are The PATHWAYS To Be a
SOARING SUCCESS? -
Learn How To Fully Connect To Your Patient.
Learn Daily Data Keeping Techniques
Learn How To Partner With Physicians
Learn How To Successfully Prepare
For Doctor Visits
Learn How To Be a HealthCare Advocate
With Hospitals
With Other HealthCare Facilities
Learn How to Ask The Right Questions
Learn How to Research Other Alternatives,
for the Particular Situation You're
Loved one - and you - are Dealing With.
Learn How To Make Decisions NOW, For what you want to feel LATER
Learn How to Make Previous Deaths and Losses into Opportunities for Living Today - as if it was your Last - for YOU and YOUR LOVED ONE.
Especially,
Learn How to Balance Your Life
Reduce Stress -
Nurture Yourself
I've Learned and Perfected So Many Techniques -
Being a Caregiver Myself For Many Years.
It Will Be My Joy To Share With YOU
THE BUTTERFLY PATHWAYS
To Make YOU
A SOARING SUCCESS!
02.
Did You know That There Is Actually a
FORMULA
For the Success of a Committed Relationship?
Yes, there is! I 'll show them all to you!
Would You like some help deciding about diving
Into a serious relationship?
Are You Contemplating Ending a Relationship
And You'd Like Some Help?
Would You Like To Learn the PATHWAYS to make YOUR Decision?
If the Decision is to End the Reationship or Marriage, would you like to Learn How to Understand that the Ending is A Soaring Success?
If the Decision is to Keep the Relationship, would you like to learn The PATHWAYS to Make The Relationship More of a Soaring Success?
Do You Have A Blended Family and Would Like Some Help Bringing Wholeness
To Your Family?
Are There Family Dynamics That
You Need To Improve Upon,
But Just Don't know How?
Are There Friend Relatioinships
That Are Precious To You,
But You Might Have Some Struggles With?
How Can You Turn Loss Of Someone Close
Into Opportunities
For Better Relationships
With The Loved Ones
Still In Your Life?
It's my Honor to help you Create
YOUR BUTTERFLY PATHWAYS
TO YOUR SOARING SUCCESS
For YOUR Relationship Situation.
Spirituality is simply a part of our DNA. As such, it needs to be nurtured, shaped, and freely chosen - so it can do its job - much like the food we eat to nourish our bodies.
Have you been searching for a Religious Practice that's "Right for YOU?"
Have you been "turned off" or hurt by previous practices that left you empty inside - or full of anger- and now - you're frozen to pick ANY spiritual practice, but you'd like to try?
Do you only know of the Spiritual Practice of Your Family - but it doesn't fill YOUR needs - and you're hesitant to try something else - out of fear of family or peer rejection?
Are you in a new relationship - and the two of you have different spiritual backgrounds - but you'd like to begin the process of of choosing the Perfect Fit for BOTH of YOU?
OR - Have you been living in a world of no Communication to a Higher Power or any other Spirituality to Higher Consciousness- and maybe you've decided that you'd like to open your mind to new possibilities - but
you just needa Pathway that's Right for YOU?
Let's go. Let me Help you come out of your Cocoon, & Fly as a SPIRITUAL BUTTERFLY to A NEW, jOYFUL, AND FULFILLING SOARING SUCCESS
TESTIMONIAL
Gagetta Michielli, NJ
"I contacted Jayne for Career Coaching, because I wanted to start a new career as Caregiver.
Now - as a Caregiver for three years -
I have learned copious amounts of tools and techniques both for my profession as a Caregiver and also as a Caregiver for my own family.
I've learned how to observe my Patient and to document detailed, daily information that can be useful to his or her physicians.
I've also learned how to partner with the HealthCare System - to provide a higher level of care and expertise.
I feel that Jayne's Coaching has improved my overall confidence in providing the best possible care I can."
TESTIMONIAL
Jessie, NJ
"Jayne helped lead my husband and I through a difficult time in
our marriage.
Her compassion and heartfelt guidance truly lifted our spirits, as we healed our relationship.
Her authentic desire to help others is a gift.
Butterfly Pathways To Soaring Success is a trustworthy, honorable business that will lovingly change your life
in the best way."
TESTIMONIAL
Cindy La Marra, DE
“
"Hi Jayne, I wanted to extend a heartfelt and humble thank you from an extremely
grateful family..
We came to you many years ago as a confused and troubled family with a teen child back then, who now is a wonderful young woman who’s achieving her dreams.
As a family, experiencing the roller coaster of life, you have been there for all of us. At every step, we needed you to help us through tough times and give us the tools we need to keep things on track.
Sadly, we had to go through a very difficult time in our lives by losing the head of our family. Once again, you were there for us, and having you as our Minister officiating his service, made it so special. I’m sure that he was happy - looking down to all of us
from heaven.
'Thank you' just doesn't seem enough, and
we feel it never will.
You are always very patient and kind. Your help and honesty are
beyond any measures.
We want you to know that people like you are what makes the world a better place - even in a sad time of death. You have given us a kindness that will never be taken lightly and will
always be remembered.
Thank you for being our Guardian Angel.
With love and gratefulness always."
Peace Zone - A Pro-Active Way to Prepare People for Life
To Provide a Foundation of Healthy Life Practices -
To Be Prepared and In Control of Life's Journeys - Ahead of Time!
The Peace Zone is A Part of Us!
Peace Zone Enterprises is an organization that is dedicated to bringing an innovative, mindfulness classroom management technique into our school system. It incorporates all of the following: mindfulness strategies, character-development, anti-violence/anti-bullying, positive energy classroom management, as well as a stress-reduction for both students and teachers.
While creating a tremendous transformation for both teachers and students, all of these strategies are easily assimilated into the existing classroom curriculum and is compatible with any content area.
We call our method "The Peace Zone," and we have "Welcome to the Peace Zone" manuals available for both students and teachers. In addition, we will provide professional development, consultation services, as well as in-classroom support to help you transform your school to a more peaceful, more productive, positive energy environment.
Extending "The Peace Zone" beyond classroom walls, we also offer public speaking for parents and community involvement, in addition to providing our new book for families called "Welcome To The Peace Zone for Families." For even greater personal energy empowerment, we offer student and teacher "Integrated Energy Therapy" workshops.
Why is "The Peace Zone"
Such A Vital Part of
Butterfly Pathways
To Soaring Success?
It's Just.......
The Simple Truth
The Most Powerful Way to Be Emotionally, Physically, and Mentally Whole
is to Start In Schools and Home
Within a Safe, Positive Energy Atmosphere
Where Everyone is Protected and Respected.
LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR NEEDS.
PLEASE CALL ME AT:
856-229-0888
OR
PLEASE EMAIL ME AT:
jaynedempsey@butterflypathways.com
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About Costs
Coaching is a process, and change does not happen with one or two sessions. My goal is to guide you and empower you into a new, improved tomorrow. It involves us working as a team, and I want you to be committed to the process. For that reason, I prefer my clients would commit to a package.
However, I also want to respect that people need options, so you can create which one is best for you financially.
The first is by a series of individual session, paid one session at a time at $200.00 per session.
The second is through a package, which gives a discount of $100 for a 6 session package.
Either way, please be ready to be committed to a process through which I can coach you in every way possible - meeting your individual needs.
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